The unfortunate truth of manly men who love cock. No man will ever approach or hint to you that they want to fuck you and you're reluctant to do the same because the guys you're attracted to are also very manly. Both sides are afraid to cum forward with the truth. So you end up home riding a dildo instead of getting that meat you really want.
It's the truth. 2 masculine men aren't likely going to connect on a sexual level unless they happen to meet online. And Yes. I know in my area its very difficult to find guys with offensive linemen stature who are tops. It sucks for me because that's y type of guy but I'm a cocksucker as well.